Dance Me to My Song
By Roger Ebert
From the Telluride Film Festival:

Another much-discussed film, but this one with a happy ending, is Rolf de Heer’s "Dance Me to My Song," an extraordinary Australian work that was written by Heather Rose, who also stars in it—even though she has cerebral palsy, and communicates through a computer and a speaking machine. As the film opens, she’s at the mercy of a stupid and cruel "care giver" who neglects and insults her. Using her motorized wheelchair and her lively intelligence, she tries to figure a way out of her dilemma. In the opening shot, the heroine seems hopeless and alien. By the end, we identify more with her than with the normals in the story.

Eddie dances Julia to her song
Julia being comforted by her friend From the Hawaii Film Festival:
by Roger Ebert
"Dance Me to My Song" takes place in Australia, and tells the story of a young woman trapped in a wheelchair by cerebral palsy, and trapped psychologically by a cruel, manipulative caregiver. During a time of excruciating frustration, she wages war against all of the barriers around her, and succeeds, amazingly, in attracting a lover. The film stars Heather Rose, who also wrote it, and who plays, as she must, a cerebral palsy victim much like herself. It is the kind of film where the human will and spirit overwhelm you. It was directed by Rolf de Heer.

Dance Me to My Song
by Evan Williams
The Australian

AUDIENCES in Adelaide have been accorded the modest privilege of being allowed to see Dance Me To My Song a week before the rest of us; they should seize the opportunity. Financed by the South Australian Film Corporation, Rolf de Heer's marvellous film was shot in Adelaide, as were his other successes The Quiet Room and Bad Boy Bubby. The Quiet Room and Dance Me To My Song were selected for competition in Cannes.

Heather Rose, the cerebral palsy sufferer who stars in Dance Me To My Song, was in Cannes for this year's screening, and I can still see her on the steps of the Palais, cradled in the arms of her co-star John Brumpton, beaming to the crowd and looking terrific in a blue satin number with off-the-shoulder neckline. A more genuinely warm and delighted reception from that notoriously cynical crowd is difficult to recall; and it wasn't just the Australians who were cheering.

Later I wondered if the image of that ecstatic moment had coloured my opinion of the film, but I needn't have worried. At a second viewing in Sydney it looked as brave and exhilarating as ever, possessing all the passion of Shine with none of the phoniness and pretension. But its weaknesses could be seen more clearly. Surely no professional carer could be as diabolically unfeeling as the ghastly Madelaine (played by Joey Kennedy), and yes, there are times when the story is hard to believe – though this may simply mean that the unbelievable is more wonderful when it happens.

Julia at her keypad Rose (who collaborated on the screenplay with de Heer and Frederick Stahl) plays Julia, a young woman confined to a wheelchair at her home in an Adelaide suburb, dependent on an electronic voice-box and visits from her carer, who comes each day to feed and clean her. Anyone squeamish about the details of these attentions will be sorely tested in the opening scenes. Arriving late and flustered for a morning call, Madelaine discovers Julia distressed on her bed, briskly feels her for wetness, mutters her relief on finding her dry ("Thank Christ"), hauls her to the toilet, shovels baby mush into a well-smeared and protesting face ("I wish you could eat like a normal person instead of a bloody animal"), and promptly flounces off.

In the evenings, it is Madelaine's habit to make herself comfortable in Julia's house, to which a boyfriend is occasionally admitted; as a special treat, Julia's wheelchair is positioned near the bedroom door so she can observe the lovemaking ("you can watch, but you have to shut up"). That Julia hungers for love and companionship in these surroundings is hardly surprising; what is surprising is the way she goes about finding it.

Eddie appears one day in the street, a passer-by – cool, unassertively good looking, with a nonchalant and taciturn humour. Julia, on the footpath, blocks his way with her wheelchair. There's some dodging about and a cautious exchange of glances; Eddie presents Julia with flowersJulia heads him off again. At first this behaviour seems more perverse than flirtatious, but Eddie is persuaded – he is curious, after all – to follow her into the house. Conversation via synthesiser is marked by some playful banter; Eddie, too, finds himself saddled with toilet duties, and the mood is the opposite of romantic. But the development of this unlikely friendship, its fitful and prankish progress towards genuine attachment and mutual respect, is the central miracle of the film. And what follows is largely predictable – Eddie's seduction, the jealous and uncomprehending fury of Madelaine's reaction, her determination to get Eddie for herself. The outcome will come as no surprise to viewers of inspirational movies, but de Heer preserves the freshness and integrity of his subject matter with a steely control, leading us to a truly exultant final scene.

As Eddie, Brumpton manages to suggest that he is driven by something more than pity or natural tender-heartedness. It is in some ways the most difficult part in the film. But Rose is the shining centre of the story; there is mischief in those looks, an impish greed in her love for Eddie that gives a kind of playfulness to those painfully contorted movements.

Her eyes speak for her: the few pitiful syllables coaxed from her computer are more like subtitles for the audience than words for Eddie. A repeated grunting – sometimes more of a snarl – punctuates her exertions. It's a sound so rhythmic and primal that I wondered if it was Rose's natural voice or a sound effect – like the sinister collage of humming and throbbing David Lynch used for The Elephant Man. Yet in Julia even these minimal sounds take on a natural expressiveness.

The weaknesses lie in the other characters – a Madelaine too hateful to be believed (mainly the fault of the writing) and a lesbian chum with a heart of gold (Rena Owen), the only seriously sentimental touch in the film.

With Dance Me To My Song, de Heer has broken new ground for the familiar "disability" picture. He has reversed the normal perspective of the viewer. In most of these films – Gil Brierley's Annie's Coming Out is the best comparison – it is the carer's viewpoint that matters: Will Angela Punch McGregor break through to Annie's cloistered disabled soul? In de Heer's film we see the story through Julia's eyes. It is Julia who is struggling to break through, to reach the world beyond herself. And not without some wonder and embarrassment, we identify with her. It is a difficult feat to bring off; and because we are forced to get close to Julia – in a sense to become her – many will find this good and brave film more than they can bear. But stay with it to the end: the rewards are rich indeed.